Double whammy, wife and I both have fibro. Home management advice?

Hi, I’ve been diagnosed with fibro for about a decade now and my wife about 2 years ago. We have been struggling to keep up with certain housework because we both work full-time. Dishes are the hardest but our plan is to move out of our tiny flat so we can get a dishwasher. Does anyone have any advice besides keeping communication open and trying our best?