My brother in law always rude at me, treat me very bad
> My brother-in-law has often made me feel uncomfortable and emotionally hurt because of the way he treats me. He frequently brings up very personal and serious matters from my life in a strange, joking, or mocking manner, often smiling while discussing things that are deeply painful for me. As someone who is naturally sensitive and emotional, these comments affect me deeply. What hurts even more is that he sometimes seems to find amusement in my emotional reactions rather than showing understanding or compassion.
There have been instances where he has made inappropriate and degrading remarks that left me feeling disrespected. For example, after noticing a phone on "Do Not Disturb" mode, he asked if I knew who had done it. When I said no, he casually replied that it must belong to a prostitute. Comments like these make me feel uncomfortable and uneasy.
Instead of encouraging me, he often discourages me and downplays my achievements. Even when I work hard in my studies and perform well compared to many of my cousins, I rarely feel appreciated by him. I have also noticed occasions where gifts and affection were given to other cousins while I was excluded, which made me feel overlooked and unimportant.
He has also mocked my personality, calling me an "alien" simply because I am an introvert. Being quiet and reserved is a part of who I am, yet it has often been treated as something strange or wrong. Over time, these experiences have made me feel isolated, misunderstood, and emotionally exhausted. More than anything, I wish to be treated with the same kindness, respect, and understanding that everyone deserves.
Posted Jun 8, 2026, 4:35 PM UTC