37 [M4F] #Georgia #Anywhere Looking for my ShopGirl, Co-Pilot, and Favorite Notification
Hello Friend,
I like to imagine it’s a smooth summer day where you are. Maybe birds chirping, there’s water running in the background, or possibly just the office air conditioner working on overdrive. I hope that this message finds you well, happy, and as wonderful as you can me on a Monday morning at the beginning of the week. I am, reaching once again, into the veritable black hole of Reddit to see if I can find someone who is interested in joining me in a caper, series of capers, or perhaps even a lifetime if the mood strikes us. See the whole “Partner in Crime” bit above.
And, before you roll your eyes at the extended metaphor, I’m just trying to do things a little different to attract someone a little different. Someone who is down for movie marathons, Renn Fest adventures, exploring DragonCon, or maybe just jamming to playlists as we cruise around with the top down, fur babies hanging their tongues out, and Chick Fil A bags freshly emptied after the servers who, by this point know us by first names, have just handed us our feast.
I’d love to find my ShopGirl (for those ladies who’ve seen You’ve Got Mail). No you don’t have to be Meg Ryan (though I certainly wouldn’t complain) but I’d love for you to have some kind of chemistry and excitement that makes messaging one another an appointment-level event. Or maybe just one worthy of sitting down the remote and grinning like an idiot while my thumbs type feverishly to reply back to you.
I’m currently single, monogamous, have a home of my own, and a wonderful job in civil service that I’m proud to work at. While absolutely ginger I can verify that I, do indeed, have a soul, a nice red beard that’s cleanly trimmed, a stature that reaches 5’8” on a good day, and a warm, caring, and fun personality. The highlights of my weeks these days are trivia nights and friend group outings…but am hopeful I can find someone that’ll help me spice that up.
As for you, dear reader, I’m ok with someone younger or older, I just want you to be my match. Keep me on my toes and let me sweep you off your feet. Looking for my best friend and ultimately life partner…but for now, I’ll happily settle for fun and engaging company at a coffee or dinner date. If any of this sounds like your kind of adventure, send me a message. I’d love to hear about your favorite movie, your nerdiest hobby, or the most spontaneous thing you’ve done lately. Best of luck to you all as you’re out there on your Reddit searches, I know it can be disheartening. You’ve got this, Bon chance, and happy hunting sweet ladies!
Posted Jun 8, 2026, 4:38 PM UTC