Tama pa ba ‘to?

TL;DR: Friendship of ~7 years or 6 months romantic relationship?

Me and my bf are together for 6 months pa lang (and known each other for less than a year) we met sa T app.

So we have access to each other’s social media accounts (and I don’t mind kaya don’t bash me on that). One day, my friend of ~8 years (I consider her my bff) chatted me na something about sa kanila ng BF niya. Nag-away sila, tapos parang ako ginagawa nilang middleman to exchange messages.

Eh since ayaw mag open ng friend ko, ang bf niya ang kinulit ko; asking anong nangyari sakanila etc. And ayun nag open naman si guy and I found out that my friend microcheated on him. Bale ang scenario, may pinagseselosan si guy sa workplace ng friend ko and aware friend ko doon. Gusto nung guy iwasan niya ang pagiinteract doon lalo na if non-work related naman. Anyway, ayun, parang ayaw umiwas ng friend ko kasi nasa iisang friend group sila nung guy. Pero all this are resolved na. Umiwas na friend ko and they are back together na since then (This happened around March).

First of all, hindi ko tinotolerate ang friend ko. Nilection-an na namin yan siya along with my other friends about it and since nga nagkabalikan sila, mukhang ayos na ang lahat. Second, mahal ko ang BF ko, ayaw ko naman na mawala siya pero ang hirap kasi ayoko rin naman mawala sa buhay ko ang kaibigan ko sa tagal ng pinagsamahan namin and all the help she’s done for me. Overall, she’s a great friend to me.

Now, dahil nakita nga ng BF ko ang lahat ng yan, ibang iba na tingin niya sakanya, to the point na gusto niya i-cut off ko ang friend ko or magb-break kami. And kaya gusto niya i-cut off ko kasi siya talaga yung may mataas na moral standards when it comes to cheating. He would cut off anyone, no questions asked basta nagcheat.

Hindi ko alam gagawin ko hahaha. I tried reasoning with him naman na hindi naman ako siya, hindi ako maiimpluwensiyahan kasi, hello?? I am my own person at kaya ko gumawa ng desisyon para sa sarili ko. Pero he’s so insistent on it and I really don’t know kung tama pa ba ‘to. I really love him and he’s great at everything pero ito lang talaga problema ko. Please help me.