I’m trying to buy a vhs from Greece vinted but i don’t know if use a proxy website or ask if the seller can ship to the USA

I’ve been doing research all night and I’ve been trying to see if they can ship items from Greece to the USA, but I’m too scared to use any proxy websites because I’ve been looking on trust pilot some of them can be a scam and some of them do work, but I don’t know what to do. If anyone knows can they please help me I know there’s the Facebook but sometimes you also have to be careful on Facebook as well. The Facebook groups and I have tried asking on there and I think I did ruin my chance, but I could ask again.