My ex-girlfriend (26F) and I (29M) remain on friendly terms after our breakup. I'm thinking about sending her 100 roses for her birthday. What message could that send with the current nature of our relationship?
I dated my ex-girlfriend for 4 years and have known her for 5 years total. We ended things on good terms with no major fallout, and while we don't talk very often these days, we still care about each other.
In the past, I've told her that I still have romantic feelings for her and don't view her as just a friend. She responded positively and has expressed that she still has love for me as well. One thing she's said is that she "can't wait to see me when the time is right," though we're currently focused on getting our lives together and are in different places personally.
Her birthday is coming up, and I'm considering sending her 100 roses. I'm trying to decide whether that gesture would appropriately reflect the current nature of our relationship and the feelings we've already discussed.
Posted Jun 8, 2026, 10:08 PM UTC