49 [M4F] #Fayetteville, NC or surrounding area - Older dom looking for adventurous younger sub for ongoing partnership

Hello! As stated, I am a 49M looking for an open-minded, adventurous, and fun younger lady who wants to explore and experience an ongoing kink and BDSM partnership with a daddy-dom type older guy.

About me: I am 5’10”, dark brown hair, tattooed, fairly decent looking (I think I’m objectively attractive but that’s very subjective, isn’t it?), look much younger than my age but still have a little salt and pepper, and normally a consistent gym goer (I’ve been nomadic, living in hotels and eating bad food for a few months so the only workouts I’ve been getting consist of dragging my luggage from my car). I am also stupidly highly educated, professional, lived all over the world, and very experienced in all the ways that matter. As for personality, in public, I’m down to earth, an avid reader, love horror movies, binging shows when I can, working out, also when I can, and going out and having fun times with a lady friend. I’m also a good conversationalist, respectful and discreet, if need be. I have a bit of a goofy sense of humor with lots of dumb but endearing jokes so, if you like that, then that will help overcome the inevitable initial awkwardness.

About you: I’d like to meet an attractive younger lady, approximately 18-35. I am relocating to the area in a couple weeks so hopefully you can welcome me, show me around town, point out the good places to eat, drink, and hang out, as well as the places to avoid. You don’t have to be from town directly but probably within a couple hours driving distance? As for looks, well, you should be attractive (whatever that means). Also, you don’t have to be a fitness model or anything - I’m am certainly not perfect and I’m getting old but I do my best- but I do prefer a normal BMI. No offense to anyone intended.

The good stuff: I am a daddy-dom type. On the outside I’m respectable but, within the confines of a safe space, that facade vanishes. I can be as mean, rough, harsh, and punishing as you can stand but I’m also sweet, affectionate, protective, and possessive. I will respect your limits but also push your boundaries. And the emotions and intimacy these conflicting approaches create are so intense and satisfying that it establishes a strong bond, which is what I’m seeking. And I want that bond to manifest with you being needy, clingy, and desperate for my attention.

More specifically, my kinks include big age gaps, DDLG, CNC, impact play, choking, face/throat fucking, degradation and extremely filthy talk, anal play, watersports, exhibitionism and voyeurism, and ALL the other very dirty things lurking in the recesses of your mind. In other words, it is impossible to scare me away.

I want to meet a friend, a partner, with whom our kinks can form the basis of a greater whole. I want us turn tradition on its head and try something new. If we connect over our darkest desires, the rest is easier, right? I know its scary but let’s make each other feel safe and accepted. Let’s become entangled, get lost in each other, and create our own secret world where we connect on a deep level.

I realize this is a long post. These are important matters that require as many details as possible. If you are interested and want to reach make sure to mention the word “raven” so I know you read the post in its entirety. Take care!