36 [M4F] #NYC - Polygynous Man seeking privileged younger lady to start a family & intense ‘lifestyle’ relationship!

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**TW:** age-gap relationships, *fetishized* misogynistic language & play, and pregnancy risk sex/breeding.  This post presumes a *Risk-Aware Consensual Kink* stance for all engagement.  **MDNI**
 
Hi there, beautiful!  I hope this finds you well.
 
I am a 36M, polygynous (e.g. me + multiple women), experienced-Dominant and sadist seeking a well-off younger lady, from a good family background, to own in an intensive, 24/7, Master-slave dynamic tinged with a misogyny fetish and (eventually) carry my seed.  Only serious candidates need apply.
 
I’ve always enjoyed intensive BDSM arrangements, role-reversals, and transformative and dark kinks: currently, I have my heart set on enslaving and breeding a spoiled trust-fund baby, New York “Gossip-Girl”, or otherwise young heiress.  I want to take you off your privileged feet make your knees raw from kneeling before me, bruise and abuse you for my amusement, and claim your precious womb with my genetics.  Enslave you, toy with you, and breed you—utterly transforming your life.
 
#About me: 
Physically, I am a man in my mid-30’s who is 1.803 meters tall and ~99 kilos in weight.  I am very hirsute and decently fit, very ‘bearish’, with a ~20 centimeter penis (uncircumcised).  I’m mixed-race/black, lightskinned, with a shaved head and salt-n-pepper beard.  I’m often described as attractive, but everyone’s tastes are different!  I am comfortable sending pics to establish compatibility, early.
 
Personality wise, I am fairly charismatic, talkative, and am often accused of being funny.  I am a natural charmer, and I’m prone to drizzle compliments on people I’m interested in (I’m good for you if you exceptionally **praise motivated**).  I am **very** cerebrally-inclined, and tend to gravitate towards deep topics.  If you like philosophy, science, or art we will likely get along—doubly so if you like to trade pontifications while mulling around a museum.
 
I do like to be physically active, though; my main hobby is weightlifting. I typically am in the gym 5/days a week.  I’m former military, if that helps you gauge me.
 
For more general leisure, I either like playing videogames or watching movies with friends.  I love going to museums/speciality fairs/galleries/art shows, and generally enjoy new experiences and people.  
 
Politically, I lean radical/progressive with a few admittedly-conservative opinions.  
 
*Nota Bene*: **I am polyamorous**, and have one (mostly) vanilla nesting-partner (F28, bi).  Currently, I have one dedicated BDSM play-partner/pet (F22, lesbian) who is long-distance.  My current partners and I are closed-circuit (and tested STI-free last checkup) and I do not use condoms.  **You will be expected to engage in FFM threesomes and eat pussy, regardless of your preferred sexual orientation.**
 
#What I am Looking for: 
Put simply: I think it would be extremely hot to denigrate and dominate a high-status young lady—from a wealthy background and a family with a sterling pedigree—and transform her into my collared- and bred-play-thing.  I’ve always had a thing for songbirds in gilded cages and princesses in distress (as the ‘Distresser’), I have a huge interest in role-reversals and lifestyle-transformations, and I am in the market to expand my harem anyways; hence, **you**.
 
Specifically, **I am seeking an intimate partner for a long-term, romantic relationship with a basis in a denigrating, Master-slave dynamic (i.e. pre-negotiated TPE) with a misogyny fetish, leading to eventual impregnation**.  Ironically, I am fairly flexible when it comes to particulars (i.e. High or low-protocol, particular D/s themes like petplay, DDlg, etc), and I am *very* accommodating when it comes to my partner’s preferences in kink/lifestyle; so, if you want a specific fetish to theme or relationship with—whether you’d prefer to be a “pet”, “slave”, “little girl”, “cunt”, or what-have-you—I am happy to negotiate that with you beforehand.
 
What I am inflexible in is: 
 
>1.) Obedience.  I am aroused by submissive’s obedience, my control over your autonomy and time, and the power I have over you to enforce my every demand.  I love brats aesthetically, but I have no patience or taste for disobedience in practice.  I am looking for readiness, willingness to follow orders, and respect for my commands.  I love to restrict/deny orgasms as a testament to your obedience, and set firm rules of etiquette for you to follow.
 
>2.) Fealty.  I will be the center of your world and life, and expect eager responses, bodily worship, and unwavering devotion to your role.  Your tongue will treat the dirtiest parts of my body—not *just* my cock—like icecream, your day will revolve around my messages and commands I’ve set.  I’ll use you as a fleshlight, footrest, breeding sow, domestic maid, or social arm-candy depending on my mood, and you will be grateful for being of my use.
 
>3.) Possession.  Slave Collars, public and permanent signs of ownership (e.g. subtle day-collars, hidden tattoos or brandings, etc.), and eventually impregnation—I want to own you down to your very DNA.  I am very much for discretion and privacy in kink, but I want my ownership of you to be total and complete; within public social norms and personal practicality for your situation.  I want my ownership of you to be utter and complete; even though pragmatism might demand it be understated or conventionalized in public life.
 
# You should be: 
·       Anatomically female, no exceptions.  I don’t care about your gender identity (e.g. woman or enby), but **I have a breeding fetish** and prefer normatively femme features.
·       Late teens or early twenties—I prefer a wider age-gap to accentuate the power imbalance, and to drive home some misogynistic themes (note: you must be **18 or older**).
·       A girl from an extremely economically-privileged background, and preferably one with generational wealth and good social standing.  Basically, I want to fuck, abuse, dominate, and ultimately breed a veritable princess—both for the role-reversal kink and the power rush of owning a valuable piece of human property.  That said, my bar for “extreme privilege” is relatively low, so if you’re not certain you qualify, still feel free to reach out!
·       **Someone focused on giving, not receiving, pleasure*!*  Your primary motivation should be pleasing and serving me—sexually, domestically emotionally—and worshipping me daily.
·       Someone interested in misogynistic fetish and themes (e.g. maledom, sexism), general denigration play (e.g. being called “cunt”), and generally submissive-status in a BDSM relationship.  Open to sub-switches, power bottoms, or even an *extremely* exceptional and somehow compatible Domme but you’ll need to make your case as to how we’d fit (and I promise to keep an open mind).
·       A smart girl, preferably—I take extra enjoyment in “stupidification” play with lessers, and I love to denigrate.
·       **Bonus points** for virgins/sexually inexperienced candidates.  I love to break in and corrupt unused girls.  Don’t be shy; drop a line.
 
If this speaks to you and you fit the (admittedly exclusive) selection pool, 1.) **send me a DM or message saying “here sir!”**, 2.) introduce yourself, tell me why you fit the criteria, and why the post excites you, and 3.) give me your availability for an in-person coffee meet within the next two days.  **I will want to meet in-person within the first 48 hours to weed out the fakes and flakes, FYI.**
 
After we’ve met, we will negotiate our power-exchange with specifics (including limits, sanity-checks, and general expectations and goals), make an agreement, and pick out your first collar together.
 
# Location 
I am currently live in New York City, in lower Manhattan.  Happy to connect with any good candidate elsewhere, as long as there is an **immediate plan** to meet after getting connected, and you are able to accommodate relocation/bilocationality.
 
This post will be incredibly selective; thus, I’m not anticipating many responses.  I’ll repost it intermittently until I find a good match.  If the post is still up, it means I’m still looking for you.

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