Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?

Is it normal to feel sad when your husband says “I” instead of “we”?

We recently closed on a house. I wasn’t on the loan because I don’t have an income yet, but he barely spent any money out of pocket since most of it was covered by the builder incentives and down payment assistance. He only paid around $250.

I understand that I’m not on the loan application, but we are both on the title, and the lender even pulled my credit during the process. And I will be splitting for the mortgage once I get a job cz mortgage will be $2300

What hurts is that whenever he talks about the house, he always says “I.” For example, he was texting my mom and said, “I recently bought a house…” He rarely includes me when talking to people about it.

Maybe I’m overthinking it, but it makes me feel left out. To me, buying this house was something we did together, even if my name wasn’t on the loan. I’m not trying to start an argument. I'm just venting and wondering if it’s normal to feel this way.