Freestyling as an SD without using bars/clubs/alcohol?

So, I'm a total newb and don't really know what the hell I'm doing, but when I've heard about "Freestyling" mentioned on any of the sugar subreddits, it's usually advised to go to some high-end (expensive) bar or club.

My problem is, the last thing I want is an SB that is really into partying or alcohol. I want to find an SB that doesn't fuck with alcohol and isn't into partying.

So, going to clubs/bars just doesn't make any logical sense.

So where does an SD freestyle in this scenario?