24 [M4F] #Mobile, Alabama #Online - I'm a self-sufficient sub boy that's looking for a long term, serious relationship with a Domme

Hey, I hope you're having a great day so far!

I'm not comfortable sharing my name here, but I'm happy to send both my name and a photo in DMs.

I’m a 24 year old guy, 5’8", 170 lbs, with long, fluffy, curly, messy black hair. It has a mind of its own, so no matter how much I comb it or drown it in hair products it stays messy. 😭😭

I work out at least four times a week and stay active because both physical and mental health are important to me. I don't judge if you're not into working out or anything, don't worry! It's your body, and I won't judge for you how you live your life

I’m a writer (mostly fantasy—I'd love to share what I’ve been working on!), a D&D 5e DM, I build PCs for friends, and I'm a big animal lover. I’ve got two cats, and some of my family has donkeys who are both adorable and I love them sm.

What I’m looking for is a relationship rooted in friendship first, partnership second, and a D/s connection third. A D/s dynamic is important to me, but it only works when there's real connection underneath it. I'm not looking for something purely sexual, I’m hoping to find someone I can laugh with, share hobbies with, and hang out with.

I have ADHD (treated), I go to therapy, and I’ve done a lot of work to make sure I show up as a whole person in a relationship, not someone looking to be rescued or fixed. I used to weigh 210, now I’m 170, and I'm definitely a lot stronger than I used to be. I’m proud of how far I’ve come, physically and emotionally.

I own my house that I bought at 20 with no cosigner, no gifts, and it wasn't a hand me down. I work full-time in a blue collar trade. I own my car, handle all my bills, put money aside every month, and try to be someone others can count on. I'm not rolling in cash, but I do my best to help my friends out when and where I can, because you have to be the change you want to see in the world.

In terms of romance, my love languages are gifts and acts of service. If you’re someone I care about, I’ll want to do little things for you constantly. I'll bring you snacks, run you a bath, surprise you with flowers, hold your hand during errands, make you breakfast in bed, gives you massages if you're sore, and I will go FERAL trying to open every door for you so that you never have to do it for yourself. Tbh it makes me feel better when my partner feels loved and appreciated. I've been told a hundred times that I'm a golden retriever bf 🥺

For the D/s side of things:

I'm a sub. I can be a brat or obedient, it really depends on the chemistry we have together and what we both enjoy. Communication is everything, especially in a dynamic like this. I want to understand your needs and boundaries just as much as I want to share mine.

I don’t have a ton of experience, but I’m happy to get some with you ;D

The kinks I already know I enjoy include: petplay, bondage, pegging, degradation, praise, humiliation, foot play, and worship.

There are more, but those are the most important ones. If there's anything you don't see on there that you like, don't be afraid to ask! I'm willing to discuss anything :)

If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask! I'm more than happy to answer anything to make sure you're comfortable, because I know dating as a woman/AFAB person can be scary, especially online. I hope to hear from you soon, and I hope you have a wonderful day! ❤️