One women trash in not another women treasure

Unpopular opinion:
If you're dating a married man and his wife never calls looking for him, never asks where he is, never expects him home, and seems completely unbothered by what he's doing...
You may not have found a great man.
You may have inherited someone else's problem.
A woman who is deeply invested in her marriage usually notices when her husband disappears. When she seems completely detached, sometimes it's because she's already spent years fighting battles you're only beginning to see.
Now, before everyone comes for me, yes, every situation is different.
But if a married man has all the freedom in the world and his wife acts like he doesn't exist, don't automatically assume it's because she's the problem.
Sometimes she's simply exhausted.
Sometimes she's already done.
And sometimes the reason he seems like such a catch is because you're getting the version of him that someone else got tired of carrying.
Just remember: if he'll lie to his wife with you, he'll eventually lie to you too.
When you become the main woman, don't be shocked when he's looking for another side woman.
After all, according to him, every woman before you was "crazy."