39F I chose to get pregnant (Not by my parter) in india

I grew up around emotional abuse, control, and toxic family dynamics. Over time, I watched how those attitudes affected the people around me and began to fear repeating the same patterns in the next generation. When I started thinking about having a child, I became determined to break that cycle.I felt caught between my circumstances and my desire to create a different future. Believing I was protecting my future child from a family legacy I wanted no connection to.I felt I had finally taken control of my own life and created a healthier environment than the one I had known

It was a simple, friendly and peaceful experience during my work travel to chennai during my ovul timeline. Guy was active on breeding posts,but i responded to his other posts on casual dates. Insisted im on Birth Control. As its anonymous , he never knew my intent. It was humble enough to walk away. Engaged with spouse before and after ovul timeline, family is celebrating pregnancy. It was a much easier one, compared to utilizing sperm banks. Yeah, I thought it would be strenous , was concerned abt catching diseases, other intentions… But turned out, if you follow some do’s and don’t s, this works quickly. And a peace of mind.

Started folic acid about a month before trying, as advised by my doctor. Ovulation prediction kits were super useful once I figured out how to use them properly.I aimed for every other day during the fertile window.

Update: Men, don't reach out to me pls !!!!! For women this path is easy n quick.