Struggles finding a dom butch4femme

Hi, I've lurked this sub before but I've never posted and I wanted to ask if other femmes struggle with finding a dom butch. I'm les4les and femme4butch and any time I try to find a play parter it's practically impossible to find a dom butch. I've tried multiple online spaces but based on what I've seen most of the people in them are bi dom fems, and if there's a butch they're either a sub or butch4butch.

And irl it's even harder.

Im really frustrated about it and idk what else to try 😔