Scared but trying to stay positive.

Anyone have a crazyyyy situation that you somehow got the best case possible? (Like avoided jail, worked it down to a misdemeanors etc) I had my situation take place a few months ago . A big accident that mostly affected me , but did total the other drivers car . Wasn’t able to blow due to being hospitalized but my blood alcohol was .11.
Lawyer hasn’t been very communicative which I can’t tell is a good thing or bad thing I’ll go to court sometime in July , again ny lawyer has not been communicative so I really have no idea what he has on my case. I was recently told to go to AA but I feel like at this point it won’t do anything to help my case considering I’ll go in a month to face the judge but even so it’s hard for me to fit in time when I work a fulltime job AND have to work out going to physical therapy. I’m scared but I’m trying to think positive and trying to have faith in my lawyer , I think I’ll likely avoid jail (fingers crossed) but definitely expecting probation and that device to blow to start the car. I just want to know some stories and try to stay hopeful .