39 (M4F) #Colorado #Midwest #Online #Worldwide - Build the perfect storybook life with me?

Hello Everyone!

I’m not only looking for local, I’m open to anybody. I’m fine starting out with an online dynamic with the intention of meeting semi quickly and relocation on the horizon.

I will want to trade photos within the first few messages to make sure we both have mutual attraction. I prefer to do that on apps that have disappearing photos like snapchat, telegram, or signal. I had a bad experience once with somebody using my photos and pretending to be me.

I’m 39, white, 5’9” 160 lbs, brown hair with a dash of white speckled in, blue eyes with glasses. I’m told I give off handsome professor vibes.

I enjoy many passions including thrifting, antiquing, volunteering, dancing, DIY, reading, hiking, camping and so much more.

I’m the type of person that can go from working hard outside fixing things to suit and tie charity event that same night. From staying in and binging a TV show together to going to a dance club.

I live in Colorado and I’m originally from a small town in East Texas. I was raised on a farm primarily by my great-grandparents who were born in the 1920s. They instilled a real old-fashioned set of values within me. My family has passed and I have no living relatives in any meaningful sense. Most of my adult life has gone into building a life from scratch, including the small business i run and own myself, that part is settled. What I’m missing is the family on the other side of the door when i come home.

I do have a vasectomy, I had this done during my last relationship at the request of my partner at the time. I would love children and will absolutely reverse the vasectomy for the right person, but I would also be perfectly happy with just me and my person if that’s what they wanted.

I’m educated, well read (From Dante and Homer to Jane Austen and Franz Kafka). I’m politically independent with liberal leanings, but with traditional values and ideas about roles, home life, and marriage.

I’m not strictly religious, I’m more spiritual than anything formal. If religion is important to you, that’s welcome and i’d support you in every way.

I also have two rescue pups that are a package deal and non negotiable.

I’m dominant in the bedroom and in how i lead the household, I have a deep respect for women and marriage is a partnership. The dominance is in how i lead, protect, provide, and take on the weight so that you don’t have to.

Inside the bedroom kink is an important part of a relationship for me. I’m into many things but will never force anybody into something they don’t want. Some of my kinks include BDSM, DDLG, Bimbofication, and CNC. NSFW isn’t all of who i am, but I’ve been in strictly vanilla only relationships before and I want more than that. To be clear vanilla is perfectly fine from time to time.

What i want is simple, a little land with some animals. I want a wife who knows she’s mine and lets me know she’s mine in how she carries herself. My babygirl that is my entire world and who I love to spoil because she loves and does so much for me. A house full of intention and great love. I want slow mornings, dinners we cook together, you spoiled, well kept and taken care of in ways that you didn’t even realize you needed until i started doing them.

A few preferences, but to be CLEAR none of these are required.

I’ve historically dated skinnier or tinier women, the smaller the better, but i also find many body types attractive. The honest weight cap for a partner for me is 170lbs m, and only because i want a long healthy life beside you.

Race doesn’t matter to me, but I have had an affinity with non-American women, thats is a preference and not a requirement.

Age doesn’t matter to me in the way it does to most people. I’ve been apart of age-gap relationships in both age directions. Maturity comes in different stages of life and i don’t judge someone’s depth by their age.

I’m willing to relocate for the right woman, though i’d prefer to stay in Colorado if it works for both of us. I am divorced with no biological children.

If any of this resonates and you want to be the woman behind a man who is finally ready to come home to someone that cares for him as much as he does her, please message me.

Tell me what your version of your dream marriage looks like?

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