How do I [33M] stop women from love bombing me?
Meeting women my age [33M] and they are all seemingly normal, have jobs and hobbies. Become totally obsessed with me for the first month and it gives me the creeps, then I'll ask for space and it goes down hill from there and I'm an asshole that doesn't even like them. That's how the last 3 have gone and it feels like Deja vu. I'm a very active person and I have hobbies that require me to be out of cell service for days. I really enjoy my freedom and I want things to go more gradually. What can I do to maintain my space and draw boundaries at the beginning? At the same time maintaining interest.
TLDR: Love bombing is ruining my dating experience. Need help with boundaries.
Posted Jun 10, 2026, 4:25 PM UTC · locked
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