48 [M4F] #Michigan looking for a sincere, intelligent woman for longterm

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Thank you for checking out my post. Yes, have a good life. I am happy, my marriage is good, my kids are older and out of the house. I’m more than stable and I have time to give.

And also? A very real awareness that I am getting older and missing something.

I am looking for a connection. Not a fleeting one. Not one for a few days, ideally a genuine one. Looking for shared life experiences. Looking for long term.

I think I would be a great boyfriend, what I have to offer; intimacy, chemistry, vulnerability… actual presence. ( with intention) emotional maturity and intelligence.

A little about me:

Attractive, intelligent, emotionally mature, HWP, professional. I’m kind, attentive, and a very good listener. objectively funny. My sarcasm is on point!

I’m educated, white collar executive. I try to be collaborative, warm, and curious. I prefer reading over reality tv. Mocktails over cocktails, but I will check out the new eccentric restaurant downtown or in Bham. Whole Foods and cooking over fast food and preservative’s.
I do prefer the finer things in life. I also admire self expression, tattoos, piercings, and people who are themselves. A little kink is hot too.

Staying active is a big part of my life. Most days include some mix of workouts, whether that’s time at the gym, or a run. I also enjoy cooking at home, trying new spots around town, spending time in the garden, and keeping music on in the background.

A little about you: “~”

Im looking for someone who is around or visits the Detroit area. Please be married, and over 40. Your kids are grown or older. You have time for this relationship.

You’re successful, career oriented, kind, and excited to find a boyfriend. You’re intelligent, emotionally mature and not looking to blow things up, just enhance it. You may have a little kinky side too.

I am open to all body types, races and ethnicities as I am looking to connect on an emotional and intellectual level.
Let’s talk and see if we have any common interests. Looking to take things slow, I have some experience with this before. I am in no hurry as I prefer to find someone who feels the same as I do wanting a long term relationship.

*notabot

Posted Jun 10, 2026, 4:26 PM UTC

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