AITA for wanting my partner to bring me toilet paper?!

NTA

Okay so here it is: I (29F) and my partner (33NB) live together and have for three years. This morning I’m on the toilet and after taking my morning dump I realize the bathroom is out of toilet paper (i.e., my partner used the last of it and didn’t replace it), no big deal. I ask them “hey babe, I’m out of toilet paper in here, could you bring me some?” As I’m asking this question, my partner interrupts me to say “babe, the toilet paper basket is right outside the bathroom door, you walked past it to enter the bathroom” in my head, I’m like wtf, you’re sitting in the bedroom 10ft away, why can’t you get up and bring me toilet paper? They continued, saying “why can’t you just get up and get it yourself? I’ve had to do that many times. What are you doing?” And that pissed me off. But they’re acting like it’s normal! Also they’ve never asked me to get toilet paper and I’ve denied them. That’s never happened. Because if I left them without toilet paper, I’m going to replace it for them. AITA?

Posted Jun 10, 2026, 4:27 PM UTC

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