30 [M4F] #Europe/Spain - Psychologist looking to delve into your kinks and desires, or corrupt you
Initially, I like getting to understand the entirety of you, your desires, your interests, your day-to-day . You can get to know about me too, I'm an open book. However, early on, I want the focus to be in you. I feel that these chats evolve depending on our shared interests, so don't be shy to share them. At the start I tend to focus on getting you comfortable and creating a safe environment.
The psychologist part is NOT offering therapy, it's because in early conversations I tend to come across that way. However I do genuinely have a Master's, interned as forensic psych and worked as a therapist.
Maybe you want to have a safe space to engage in all this, maybe you want me to test and try your desires.
After some time, things can evolve into very interesting dynamics. I've posted like this for a while, the best experiences I've had (and I've had amazing ones) tend to come with developing an understanding, chemistry and trust. Ideally, this would be a long-term convo. The best people I've met here, they've become my friends. And even more, one inadvertently turned into a very important person for me. Most connections won't go that far, but I'm looking for a very personal and involved chat, I commit to the right person.
About me, I am a psych in the Canary Islands (Spain), I like a lot of outdoor activities (swimming, snorkel, hiking). I like books, I like learning. I am thin, fit, dark-haired, full bearded and brown-skinned. I have nerdy interests and I like engaging in conversations about them. I am hard to bore or annoy.
Kink-wise, I don't have a predefined set of things I enjoy. I enjoy power, mostly mental power. It can take many forms and it depends entirely on what I see in the other person. Part of the fun is figuring out how you work and using that. Hence, the corruption.
About you, my only requirements are that you're female and a max ~10 year age gap. However, I'll say who I tend to get along better with. You could be nerdy, someone that has thought about their kinks and engages in them, open to have conversations about sex, curious about your sexual desires, someone genuine, that shows themselves as who they are (even if it's not immediately).
Please introduce yourself like I did in my post. A message with a good introduction is guaranteed a reply.
Posted Jun 10, 2026, 4:28 PM UTC · locked