39 (F4M) #California - Daddy, come flip this switch into superposition

I'm a woman in her thirties, who’s put in the time to figure out what I want and need; unfortunately, that all happened after I got married. So I find myself here, in a place I would have never thought I would be, looking for more.

Now, let’s set expectations. This is meant to be fun. Deliciously, indulgently, but unapologetically supplemental to our marriages. But what I’m after is a bit of a twist on a cliché. I want to find a Dom who’s not only confident enough to handle me thoroughly, but also someone who can guide me, teach me, and help me explore a side of myself I’m eager to develop. I want a man who can mentor me in becoming a domme myself, showing me the ropes so I can take control of sub men in ways I haven’t before. Yes, this means you’re cool with letting me dom other men…with and at your direction. Think of it as a wicked apprenticeship, with private lessons, and all sorts of practice.

That all being said. I've been called a brat more times than I can remember and while it's not a label I personally hold tightly to, it likely is accurate, if that's not your cup of tea, keep scrolling.

So if you’re the kind of man who can teach without condescension, Dom without posturing, and take a well-timed eye-roll with a smirk of your own…slide into my inbox. I’m looking for someone who isn’t just a “Daddy,” but a devilishly clever sadist with a soft spot for mouthy girls who ask for trouble. I’ll push you. I’ll test you. I’ll give you shit you deserve. But I promise, if we click…I’ll be your favorite problem