What is this tone deaf comment?

So already had 4 drops for neet, abhi i am trapped between re neet but I have already made up my mind that I don't wanna do this shi anymore

I am 21, if I take mbbs this year(probably from abroad which clearly my parents can barely afford), it will take 10 to 12 years for me to finally have a job if we include pg, I will be almost be in my mid 30's, i don't wanna go that long without any money of my own

Now when I pushed my idea of ssc they just don't wanna listen, I will have my degree next year, so am thinking about giving it and clearing it, willing to finally give it all and do something and save my career but my parents just don't understand it

I said I wanna be financially independent and wanna have some stability but they just not want to understand it, they are like you are rushing, you are still young, I see people getting jobs at 28, so dw, I was like idc when people are getting jobs, I want it soon, so that I can finally live my life, so that I can start investing from a young age but they just won't listen

They are like do you wanna do 3rd class job your whole life, like this is such a stupid comment, group b jobs are not 3rd class, getting 1lakh+ per month(after 8th pay commission) is not 3rd class, ik I can clear it if I really try but they are just pulling me down, idk what they want, they just don't wanna leave the mbbs option or idk maybe they want me wasting my life on upsc preparation and fck up my mental health even more, atleast there is more chances in selection in ssc than upsc which is mostly a scam

What do I do