OCIA

Is there a way around this?

- I am baptized

- I understand the sacraments

- I am legally married but need to have sacrament of matrimony

- wife and daughter baptized

I have had multiple parishes tell me that ocia starts in September ending at Easter, why is with holding the sacraments acceptable? To many catholics ive met dont even know what the church teaches, dont go to confession before the mass and are taking it. But if I understand the process im left out?