42 [M4F] #TN/Online looking for an online friend to play with

42 year old male here, live in TN, no kids. Married for half a decade and while we're still in an ok spot, it's starting to feel more like we're roommates than partners. We no longer flirt and our sex drives have moved in opposite directions.

I guess I'm looking for someone to fill that void here. I know it's not the best thing to do but we all have needs and some of mine just aren't being met here.

I want to have someone who's excited to talk to me, someone who wants to flirt with me and someone who wants to have some fun during the day or at night.

I like to think I'm a smart, funny guy, have a good professional career that lets me live a comfortable life and looking for someone in the same spot in their lives. I work at home so have plenty of time during the day to chat. I don't have kids but am not against talking to someone who does but would prefer that you also have a partner so we are coming from the same spot in our lives.

My hobbies include reading, tv, music, movies, hiking, travel, finance and more.

In the bedroom, I'm more of a dom and would prefer someone submissive who wants to have some fun online and is missing it in their personal life. This part is important to me over some other items so keep that in mind if you're messaging me. I'm looking for a professional, smart, fit woman who yearns to be told what to do and when to do it. Any age is fine as long as you're comfortable being submissive. I'm looking for a woman who's wanting to give up control to me, allow me to tell you when to drink water, what color panties you're wearing to work, what nail color you're putting on and show me choices of dresses or pantsuits to pick from for your work attire. *notabot

Discretion is important but would like to have a long term thing going with anyone I click with(which I know won't be easy so I'm casting a wide net here). Would want to share a picture early on so we know we find each other attractive.

Reach out, open a chat and let's see how we get along. Let's talk about ice cream and other random crap