Cool Winter who hates purple-y blush and lip combos - help me find something that actually feels current

I recently got professionally color analyzed as a Cool Winter and I'm struggling to find blush and lip combos that work for me. Every recommendation I come across either skews really purple or hot pink and it just feels dated to me -- like 2014 tumblr in the worst way

I know Cool Winter calls for cool-toned, blue-based colors, but I'd love something that leans more nude-ish rose or berry without going full grape. I'm especially interested in Chanel but open to other brands too.

Anyone else navigate this? What are you actually reaching for?