37 M4F - Attracted to Ambition

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Hi there,

I’m a generally happy, optimistic, and active 37 year old based on the West Coast. I’m a catch (like even IRL!) and hope you are too: attractive, successful, and building a great life that’s missing something extra and selfish beyond all my responsibilities and obligations.
Sound like you? In typical Type A fashion, here are a few bullets on me and what I'm looking for:
Me:

- Tall, fit, Caucasian, athletic and conventionally attractive
- like even by real world standards. I have dimples so you should keep me smiling
- Type A White Collar exec who is proud of my career and sweats all the details
- i love cooking, concerts, sports (particularly the NBA and college football), and spending an egregious amount of money on DoorDash.
- My happy place involves oysters and martinis
- Generally happy but looking for more. I’m emotionally available and can commit effort to the right person.
- Food pics, selfies, and playlists are my love languages

You:
- Funny, ambitious, conventionally attractive. I tend to go for petite and/or athletic
- Career-driven, white collar professional
- Generally happy in your life also. Treating this as as a fun escape but also emotionally available
- Bonus points for PST, dog lovers, big city dwellers, dive bar lovers, and country club brunchers

Sound like your type? Reach out and say hi

*notabot

Posted Jun 11, 2026, 2:29 AM UTC

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