Struggling with dick size

So yes, I know this is a story that has been told 100 times on this thread, but I'm going to tell it again. For starters, I am black, so there is already an expectation for me to have a huge dick. The issue is that I just don't. I'm only 6.5, and it's taking a serious toll on my mental health. Like I said, I have a pretty nice body that I have worked hard to get, and I would say that I am moderately attractive. With that, I would sort of expect to be able to find bottoms that are fit and muscular like me, but it seems like all of them want 8+ only. The rejection got to the point where I considered just being a bottom, but I have tried that multiple times in the past and have hated it every time. At this stage, I just don't know that to do. Are there any muscular bottoms out there that don't have the strict 8+ requirement that is so common these days?