41 [M4F] #SanJose - Let’s become each other’s favorite notification
Why I'm Here
Most of us aren't here because something is missing. We're here because every now and then you meet someone who adds a little more color to an already complete life. A conversation becomes a habit. A habit becomes anticipation. And suddenly a random stranger matters more than they probably should.
About Me
41, married, 5”9 - 140lbs, active, fit, and I take care of myself. More hiking trails and scenic drives than bars and clubs. I love being outdoors, enjoy reading, and I'm naturally curious about people and the stories they carry.
About You
I'd prefer someone married and 30+. Beyond that, age matters much less to me than chemistry, intelligence, warmth, and the ability to hold a great conversation.
What I'm Looking For
Nothing dramatic. Just that rare connection that makes you smile when a notification appears and wonder what they're up to when it doesn't.
If this sounds familiar, send me a message and tell me something about yourself that most people wouldn't guess.
Posted Jun 11, 2026, 2:30 AM UTC