The problem with Desi/Pakistani Mentality

I try to write my experiences around the years. Some people write negative comments since they do not have the courage to go talk to a girl and invite her out. Also, since they have not lived anywhere other than Pakistan, they do not know the norms that other societies operate on.
I wrote my experience with a 19 years old girl. I was 36. It was an affair between consenting two adults. Yet, some called me predator.
I talked about my time with a girl on a plane. Negative comments flow in again.
I talked about another experience on a plane in which, unfortunately, I did not get to hand out with the woman I asked out.

I believe in consenting adults to do whatever they do in their private lives. People are attracted to different kinds of people. Some women are attracted to men older than them, some to younger ones. Same thing with men.
Also, asking a woman out does not automatically guarantee you that you will sleep with her. And I dont believe in her consent.
I talk to a lot of women. I do not ask all of them out. Most of my conversations remain civil. I do ask those out that I find attractive. If she refuses, I let it go. If she refuses after giving me her phone number, I delete her number and move on.

The problem with Pakistani men is that they cannot talk to a woman. And if someone comes along and it does not turn out good in the end, they remain clingy. They try to make the life of that woman miserable. They cannot take No. In the extreme cases, the incidents such as acid attack happen.

So Pakistani guys, you need to understand the following:

1. Anything that goes on between consenting adults is what they choose to do and you should not judge.
2. Ask a woman out. if she says NO, just move away.
3. If you have been dating a woman, and she wants to end the relationship, don't feel butt hurt. Just accept it.
4. Stop judging others just because you do not have the courage to go talk to a woman.