des and rhino in 2 weeks!!!

freaking out that my des and rhino surgery are in 2 weeks. like freaking out and almost want to pull out of them, but i’ve been researching and thinking about this for so long. i’m just so scared for the swelling and healing process and what if it doesn’t look good?! please send words of encouragement, advice, things you wish you knew, anything!!! please help 😭🙏