M/39 strait denver newish to enm looking to make some friends and figure out what the local scene looks like.

So my marriage ended in 2020 after 5 years of one sided swinging where my partner abused her freedoms and never communicated. after quite a few years of soul-searching and working on not hating myself. I finally found polyamory and it fits the way that I have always wanted my relationships to be treated with communication and love and respect. without pointless jealousy. Being an available single male New ish to the Lifestyle., I'm trying to figure out What the dating scene Looks like for Us polyamorous individuals. I know there are swingers clubs I know About the hotel takeovers (I used to do security for them) I think it might be better to do something less intimate and make some friends first.... looking forward to some input from other locals