21 [F4M] #Lowcountry, SC - Middle seeking Daddy for long-term, silly shenanigans. (New and improved!)

Howdy there! You can call me Olive for now. Welcome to my post! Sit tight, it’s gonna be a long one.

Hopefully, this will be more of a journey we take together rather than a bunch of bullet points. I’m looking for something typical: Long-term, committed relationship, online to IRL.
 

# About me

Again, my nickname is Olive (I feel more comfortable giving my name later). I’m 21, 5’2, curvy with muscle. I have medium deep skin, a nose ring, two tattoos, short black hair, and I wear glasses. I’m child-free and completely sterile.

I’m a full-time student living on the East Coast. I’m currently halfway through my associate's degree. I’m taking a very sociological tilt so I can major in that later. 

I love learning and I love going to school. I’m often reading Wikipedia articles or watching long YouTube essays. I love learning little bits and bobs about everything.

I’m also a very crafty and artistic gal. I mostly crochet, read, bake, and play video games. I have a laundry list of hobbies but that’s the dream blunt rotation for now. I also like to spend my time doing yoga, lifting weights, talking to my friends (I called my friend for 4.5 hours a few days ago), being in nature, traveling (when life allows), and just being whimsical. Does enjoying the simple pleasures count? 

I’m a very reflective and self-aware person. As a result, I’m extremely hard on myself. Quite literally thoughtful because I think a lot. I have an innate sense of justice. I’m all about maximizing ethical pleasure but I’m still trying to find ways to be disciplined. I’m a silly goose and sometimes I crack jokes when I’m not supposed to. I think I’m pretty funny. I can laugh at dry stuff, and I still laugh at fart sounds. I’m quite shy and it’s easy to tell that I don’t like taking up a lot of space. I keep to myself and am quite introverted, but I do like to go out and explore. Just on my own terms.
 
I’m a leftist (like socialist 😬). Beyond politics being really interested in me, I just find this stuff fascinating. This stuff will come up in conversations. If that’s not your jam then neither am I, I fear.

My daily life depends on which way the college wind is blowing. It’s summer break and I’m allowing myself to be a lump. I’m maximizing hobby and self-care time. Just reconnecting to the person I am outside of my work/school productivity.
 

# What am I looking for?

I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I’m talking months to years. An important thing I want is progression. Talking stage, exchanging numbers, calling, FaceTiming, considering a future together. Alldat. 

I’m all about disciplined pacing which I feel we’ll find for ourselves. I obviously don’t want to meet your chosen family after a month, but we don’t need to do that thing where you try not to respond to someone’s text too quickly. Cmon we’re adults. 

With the nature of *this*, I don’t expect you to be super local. I’m not against relocation. With what I’m looking for, cohabitating is something that will come up. Overall, it’ll be much easier to have this conversation one-on-one but just know it will be a conversation.
 

# Our dynamic

I’m seeking a DD/lg dynamic. I identify as a little (middle rather). This is where I feel the most at home. I can truly turn my brain off and I give “little” energy in my everyday life. Little me is more bubbly and spontaneous. In middle space I like to color, watch cartoons, and play games (toca boca hair salon is peak). I honestly just take activities that I like to do everyday and “little-fy” them.

I thrive on consistency and honesty. Trust makes so much of a difference between whether you’re my daddy or some guy. Through ups and downs, there are always constants we can find in each other. A steady presence.

I see my submission and your dominance as a symbiotic relationship rather than a top-down thing. We’re both adults making intentional choices that build over time. Most importantly, we’re here to have fun. Once it’s not fun, what are we doing? I expect and welcome continued adjustments, check-ins, communication, and just feeling things out. 

With that all being said, I’m not looking for micromanagement or “no questions asked” kind of situations. Bucking at authority is kinda my thing so yes, I will need to know why I’m doing certain things and how it helps our growth separately and as a pair. 

I don’t want to be humiliated or read for filth. I don’t want our relationship to be a battle of wills and roasts. I’m not into anything illegal, vomit, or scat. No two tip tummy terrorism for me thank you. Beyond that, I’m willing to try most things once and we can talk about it!

I like routines, gentle guidance, check-ins, intentionality, and those everyday moments that remind us of what we’re doing all this for. Anything 24/7 TPE isn’t my jam these days.
 

# About you

I’ve been talking *to* you this whole time. Now it’s time to talk *about* you. Hello you! 

This will be the shortest section because after a certain point, it’s about vibes man. We just gotta vibe. Vibe in a vibe-y way. Of course having a gentle, nurturing, protective vibe about you is highly preferred.

I prefer to date older people. If I had to give a range? 30-40 (plus or minus a couple years if we really hit it off).

Beyond age, I value stability. A sense of direction, knowing what you want, knowing yourself, emotional availability, healthy coping strategies, a good support system formed of people you choose, hobbies, those kinds of things. 

I definitely have a soft spot for taller men, beards, tattoos/body mods, and alternative styles. A real sturdy dude. Someone who looks like they listen to grunge probably. Do you know who Chris Cornell is? Yeah. Get in there.
 

# Conclusion

I think we've got to everything. If any of this resonates, you’re my kind of person and I’d like to hear from you. 

When you do reach out, tell me about yourself. Or if you’d like some wasabi on your sushi, try one of these!

\- What’s the last thing that brought you child like joy?
\- How would you go about eating a muffin?
\- How do you feel about HOAs?
\- What do you think would happen if there was a crack in the moon?

Thanks for reading! 💖