Ever since ketu mahadasa and elinati shani started, it's only getting confusing, although it cleared some paths for me.

The ugly:

Lost beloved grand ma

Lost best friend at 32 due to fast spreading cancer and I was beside her during final days

Got to know my pet died when I visited grand ma funeral from US , they hid it because I was pregnant when it happened 

Ugly fights erupted due to in laws and husband is not very understanding too, I still feel isolated and confused (which brings me to my question because I cant stand them too)

Lost my job 3 months ago

Got an autoimmune condition which makes me u able to tolerate heat(>27 celcius) more than 2 minutes 

The good:

Gave birth to 2 babies whom I love to bits

Parents support all through the chaos

Got Canada PR 

The bad:

Husband wants to move to his momma from US , but wants me to move to Canada with kids (both under 3 and half, one of them is infant)

He said he won't support me financially but will permit me to go to Canada so I can get citizenship and sponsor him later in life if he decided to move to Canada

He says you can work in Walmart or work like a maid it doesn't matter, you just live and take care of kids in Canada

He wants to sell off home in USA and making me do all the packing(found issues with home and selling Got postponed for a bit now)

So now I am jobless, losing my mind with 2 kids(even with parents support right now), no time to prepare for jobs, no support if I move to Canada

Now due to my husband's petty behavior,  I am inclining towards Canada for peace of mind.

Will it happen? For that to happen, I need to get a job 

Here comes the actual question,  thank you so much for being patient, is there a possibility per my chart for finding a job and will I be able to live alone with my babies? I am so worried for my babies and even for living alone

Will this marriage become any better? My in-laws influence is it going to mellow down any bit?

Confusion - ketu mahadasa with elinati shani