2 matches in 24hrs
And I unmatched with them both. Lol… honestly I’m 100% a believer in patience. But I’m a bigger believer in communication.
And double honestly.
It’s been very confidence-boosting in the sense that, I am holding my matches to the same communication standards as me. Even though I know they are getting way more matches and conversations to manage. If there’s not mutual interest I’m not going to feed their ego. That said I am happy to feed a woman’s ego if she makes me feel important lol.
My attention is valuable and can be used on other things besides waiting on replies from matches. So I’m not going to spend more mental energy on a match than is healthy.
And just focus on finding the right match.
I’ve heard that women have quantity and not quality when it comes to their options.
My goal is to market myself as a quality man because that’s who I’m sculpting day by day. And with patience the right match may come along
Posted Jun 11, 2026, 2:38 AM UTC