24 [F4M] CA, furry girl looking for long term relationship

About Me

Hello 👋🏽☺️
Nice to meet you, I’m Kailah!
I’m a 24‑year‑old girl in the state of California. I’m an African Dominican girl, 5’4 in height, and 250 pounds.

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My Personality

With my personality, I’m very much a sweetheart who’s hyper and silly most of the time. I love to joke around about everything and anything. I have a dark sense of humor and I love saying out‑of‑pocket crap lol. I’m very sweet to new people and friends in general. I’m easy to vibe with.

I’m also a hopeless romantic. I love love. I’m always watching Disney movies and dreaming of my future man one day. I love to be babied and I love to baby my partner in the moment. I’m hardworking, open‑minded with adventures, and just a sensitive girl too. I get soft on certain topics and I’m clingy as well.

I’m an outgoing girl once you get to know me. At first, I’m in the stage of making sure you’re the right fit for me, but after that I’m a certified yapper 😂.

I’m also creative. I love crafts, arts, and cosplays. I’m very hopelessly romantic, and I would be very affectionate if you hit that soft spot in me. I’m also a little toxica, sarcastic and protective, but nothing crazy.

I’m a social butterfly and yet I’m a softy too, so I get sensitive sometimes lol. Overall, I’m very nonchalant and always ready for adventure or anything.

I love to cook and bake, so you’re going to have amazing cooking and baking in your life lol. I’m pretty active too.

The type of music I like is old‑school music, some new music, and funk. I love jamming out to certain types of music.

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My Job

My current job right now is being a Special Education teacher while I’m in college earning my degree in regular education for elementary education. I’m very passionate about my job and my students.

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Hobbies

Cosplaying
Fursuit making (yes, I am a furry, it’s a hobby and a little reputation)
Gaming such as Roblox, Wizard101, Resident Evil, 626 games, horror games, Fortnite
Collecting things like animal bones, crystals, cow plushies, pig plushies, all the plushies 😝
Exploring the world, nature, new cities, beaches, aquariums
ATV riding
Fishing and camping
RP texting

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What I’m All About and How I Am as a Girlfriend

In a relationship, I very much want to be a spoiled princess, loved, cared for, and spoiled by his love and attention. Hopefully he can handle my little sass from being Dominican lol. A little toxica but nothing crazy.

I’m always there to support and take care of my future man. I want him to feel seen, safe, taken care of, loved, and most importantly fed. I love to bake and cook 😂.

In a relationship, I’m into being his best friend, cuddling, and talking about everything and anything.

I am insecure and still figuring out my worth. I used to be very fat and lost a lot of weight, and I’m still working on it. I’m insecure about my body and I overthink it.

I’ve been abused and hurt before emotionally and physically. I do have BPD and sometimes, if the relationship feels too good, I panic and push the person back, rarely, because I worry I’m not good enough.

I do not and will not send images of myself naked for your desires. I’m not sorry for this. I’ve had too many problems and I don’t feel comfortable doing that. Please don’t ask. I will immediately lose feelings and it will make things awkward.

I rely on lots of love and attention, not 24/7, but whenever we can. We’re adults, so I don’t want a super clingy relationship where it’s every second, but I do want him to be there whenever he can.

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Heads Up Before Getting to Know Me or Being in a Relationship

I do have BPD and depression. I’ve taken therapy and manage it as best as I can. Sometimes, not often, I have slip‑ups and get trapped in it.

Also with me too, at first, when you’re getting to know me, I’m very kind of standoffish. I am looking based on the divide the connection which you asked me and stuff like that in the more I feel like we have that connection or that type of vibe where it’s not too formal I start to open myself up more and you get to see more of my personality.

I ask that you support me and help me. My biggest green flag is a man who will be there, support me, call me, message me, and work through things together and just make me feel seen and loved for .

Lastly, I do not send nudes. I don’t send photos of myself. Don’t ask, especially not too soon, because I will lose feelings.

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Age Range for a Man

I’m looking for ages 23 to 35 only. Nothing older or younger.

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Location

I don’t care about distance, but I do care about seeing one another as much as we can. It’s a big plus if you’re in the same state as me. I don’t mind long distance.

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I Don’t Date

Black men
Guys who have existing children
Bi or pan men

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What I’m Looking For in a Man

I want someone who’s ready for a relationship and means it. I’m dating to merry and I want him to be the same. Someone who wants children in the future.

I care about a man who is funny, can crack jokes with me, and is romantic. Someone who’s obsessed with me, protects me, and knows how to make me feel like I’m their only one.

I love BookTok guys and that whole dominance thing, especially since I’m bratty. That’s a major plus haha. this is really important to me because I like a guy who is devoted to me who will literally keep me on my toes in both ways lol I like him to say spicy stuff to me and flirt with me back be not afraid to show me off to people as well re-create spicy scenes two from books of that read lol

I want someone who takes the time to get to know me, cherish me, spoil me with his love and attention, and yes, flowers too. I’m really big on flowers lol. I would appreciate somebody send me flowers spoil me the old-fashioned way see something maybe that I would like and also just maybe spoil me with it. It doesn’t matter if it’s a physical item or not I just really love to be spoiled romantically.

I like a guy who has everything planned for his life, who’s working on himself. I love a guy who is a provider sweetheart, where we can do the same things for each other.

I want a good old‑school love connection, just falling in love naturally. I want a guy who will take care of me, love me, and support me as I will do the same for him. Someone willing to see me no matter the distance.

I’d love a guy who’s into the same music as me, maybe we’re out somewhere dancing together, having the time of our lives. Spending time together in the kitchen, cooking and talking about our day or anything on our minds.

If I’m watching movies or TV shows, I’d love him to join me. If I’m doing crafts or activities, I’d love for him to be involved. That shows love and appreciation to me. overall, I’m just looking for that guy who’s not too plain I like somebody with more personality and devoted that really draws to them a lot more . Who will accept me for being a furry and also support and encourage me. I love a guy who is very romantic respectful. He wants the relationship, family and future merry , all that in the future and who’s looking to settle down if we’re distance or not really expect the guy to come see me if he can. It should’ve matter to us.

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If You Made It This Far

Please don’t hesitate to come into my direct messages.
Tell me about yourself.
If you want to send me a picture of yourself, I’ll be more than happy to reply.

I hope to hear from you soon 🖤☺️👋🏽