40 [M4F] #SanFrancisco bay area, looking for my dirty girl (long)

TLDR, 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .

Long version:

I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.

vanilla stuff:

love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.

420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.

Kink wise:

I’m not into **extreme** pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.

Where I am:

I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂

Type of relationship:

I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.

Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).

Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together

Stats/looks:

Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)

Been told look decent. Pictures when we match