Fem Alpha!Reader A/B/O opinions needed

Hello! Just need opinions really quick.

This is my first Alpha!Reader fic, I usually do Omega!Reader. The Reader is intended to be fem but obviously alphas have extra equipment. I usually write my fem alphas with always having their appendage and want to do that here. Should I, or would that take you/readers out of it a little? Should I do the old “grows with arousal” thing?

And, no, I will not change it to a masc or male reader. I only write F/F.

All advice/opinions welcome!