Torn between two BGLOs

Hi,
I’ve currently been torn between two organizations for around a year. I’ve read books on both and given they have some similarities I’m unsure what to do. The accomplishments from the organizations are profound and I could truly see myself being happy and doing something in both. Even after meeting some of the ladies I get along with both but I’m still unsure, I don’t plan on expressing interest or getting to know anyone too well until I’m sure just given I don’t want it intentions to come off wrong. Does anyone have to advice?