I’ve strongly considered for years being the second to a man.

Throwaway for obvious reasons. Anyways, I’ve very much considered being the second to a man for years who has discussed marriage with me time and time again to some extent. He has someone but has seemed interested in me and another woman (both of us with our own health issues and such). He’s very knowledgeable, incredibly so. He can provide and I believe him to be a very fair and just man.

I believe that it’s in my best interest because of my health issues and things of that nature. But also because he’s the best Muslim I’ve ever met, someone who I’ve known for some time.