33 [F4M] #Los Angeles - Seeking highly intelligent and attractive daddy type

I’m an attractive woman in my 30s who is warm, grounded, and a little adventurous, especially when there is strong chemistry and a playful dynamic.
I am looking for a confident, attractive Daddy who enjoys being playful, romantic and taboo on occasion.
I am drawn to emotionally available, self-sufficient, and emotionally secure men. I am looking for a romantic, ongoing ddlg connection.
Ideally you are mid 30s to mid 40s and based in Southern California.
I am married and polyamorous, so I am only interested in someone who is also poly. That said, I do only want ONE daddy.
Please mention your non-monogamy status in your message.
Please also be able to host.
I have only had a short term DD/BG dynamic and this time looking for a long term and steady connection.
I am usually a power bottom with a playful, seductive bratty side. I respond best to a Daddy that is attentive, affectionate, reinforcing, and engaged rather than strict and punishing. A daddy who is grounded. I am not looking for TPE in any way, I am not open nor will I consent to punishment - I am looking for something whimsical, meaningful, and magical. For me, kink, DDLG, and BDSM is less about rigid structure and more about chemistry, creativity, and novelty.
I enjoy soft, focused touch like baths, hair play, hair braiding and dynamics like dollification (fun photoshoots). I would also like to have my hair braided with ribbon like in wuthering heights if you are up for the creative challenge.
My little age is 17.5 or maybe the ages I enjoyed Pokémon. I still very much like classic Pokémon...
I am not into ABDL.
I usually feel warm and young when flirting or during aftercare but not usually during scenes.
I value communication, emotional intelligence, and effort. I prefer voice calls over endless daily texting.
Outside of that, I enjoy trying new restaurants, board games, cocktails, writing, kayaking, and writing poetry.
I bring endless creativity and energy to my dynamics. I’d like to write fantasies and scenes and bring them to life - with my partner. I am also a loyal and a highly considerate person.
If this resonates, send a thoughtful intro so I can get a sense of you and what you look like (height, weight, age, background, things we have in common etc.) Tactful, respectful and intentional communication is important to me.
Please be ready to verify via video not long after reaching out. I am not looking for a penpal, I am looking for an IRL connection. If you ask too personal of questions before verifying, I will not be answering them due to the amount of fake accounts I’ve seen on here.
TLDR:
• Attractive Daddy
• Mid 30s to mid 40s
• ENM -> Poly
• Be able to host
• Seeking someone emotionally intelligent and self-sufficient
• Looking for something consistent, intimate, and romantic
• Be ready to verify
Local to: Los Angeles County and Ventura County connections.
Open to comet partners: San Diego County, Orange County, and Santa Barbara County.
I am open to mutual travel or meeting halfway, especially if is along the SoCal coast.
I don’t usually like to say what I am “NOT” into but I’d really like to avoid getting my messages that don’t meet my search or that are just obnoxious.
That said:
No affairs.
No cheaters
No DADT
No NSA
No casual
No FWB
No ONS or “play”
No unicorn hunting
No catcalling
No “heyyy, how r u”
No “hey sexy”
No dick pics
No TPE no M/S

Your first message gives me insight to who you are. I look forward to connecting.