Date seemed to go great but he ghosted me.
For about a week, I (F34) talked to a guy (M38) on a dating app before meeting for a dinner date this past Saturday. Our date lasted about an hour then we both went home. He texted me before we even left the restaurant parking lot and said it went great and he couldn’t wait to see me again. I told him likewise and to let me know when he made it home since he had a little bit of a further drive than I did. He let me know that he made it home then he texted me about an hour later and said “would you like to come by and watch a movie and have drinks?” I told him I couldn’t that night but next time I would. I just personally don’t like getting in bed with someone I literally just met.
Anyway, the next morning, I told him good morning and he replied. We discussed what we were going to do for the day and he said he was going to play golf. I told him I’d love to join sometime. About 4 hours passed and I didn’t hear from him, so I followed up with another text asking when he left for his work trip. On the dinner date, he’d told me he was leaving either Sunday or Monday night for a work trip. From Sunday afternoon- today (Thursday) I have received no communication from him. I checked the app to see if he had unmatched me and he hasn’t even been active.
Should I reach back out to him or take it as a sign that he’s not interested since he just left off texting me? Or just assume that I’ve been ghosted?
FWIW, my pictures aren’t filtered at all. I used to model so I’m conventionally pretty attractive. Only difference is I wore glasses to my date because I’m out of contacts and only one of my pics on my dating profile has me wearing glasses.
Posted Jun 11, 2026, 9:16 PM UTC