Is it just me or is everyone self diagnosing these days?

legit everyone around me is either adhd, autistic or ocd. and guess what, no one actually has a diagnosis. at this point it just feels like an excuse to not work on social and people skills. Yeah we work online and irl meetings are way less than before covid, but its a muscle that needs to be trained. i guess everyone is just lazy.

The worst part is it gives a bad rep to actually neurodivergent people who go through SO much just to navigate everyday life.