AITAH because I added my new coworker to social media because I thought he was cute? My friend said I shouldn’t have done that because most people don’t want work mixed with social media

I told him I’m definitely not the type to snitch on him to the boss man. He followed me back on social media but he’s a bit standoffish on social media . At work he’s very talkative and friendly to me but when I messaged him on social media he was short and dry in his responses . I was just trying to get to know him! He’s only 23 while I’m 34 but I don’t mind a much younger man. He’s extremely handsome and sweet and he was really silly and goofy at work. I rarely run across people in the wild im interested in. This new guy the boss man hired immediately had me interest . I’m surprised I don’t see his goofy personality shine in the messages tho

I told my friend wow the new hire is so hot and sweet. My friend said “some people just don’t wanna add coworkers . They don’t want to be snitched on for what they do on their off days . Like if they drunk and party “