Best way to meet couples?

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27M aspiring bull. Currently working on alot of self improvement (50lbs down since october)

Bought my first house last month, got it furnished, so I'm ready to host if necessary.

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So my question is, what's the best way to advertise yourself and put yourself out there so couples who are looking can find you?

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Feeld is garbage, Mayne it's just where I'm at but IF you find a couple (rare) they want unicorns rather than Bulls. Same with SDC, single males are basically rodents

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So that leaves Reddit and going to fetlife events?

There has to be more than that.

I guess there are swinger clubs nearby If you want to pay the ridiculous single guy tax

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So what am I missing? What are the best ways to market yourself to couples who are seeking bulls/a 3rd in general?

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Also in addition to fitness, any other skills to improve along the way or any other advice is greatly appreciated! Here's hoping I can find a place in the lifestyle!

Posted Jun 11, 2026, 9:26 PM UTC

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