I don't care

I recently broke up with my PA bf of 3 years. I cannot commit to a life of lies and constant hypervigilance.

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I hold very little sympathy for porn addicts. We can say "most men are addicted or watch or, most men were exposed to it early in life"

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Ok? I was exposed to it at 4, had a lot of sexually deviant and addictive behaviors toward porn until I was 13, and then guess what? I decided I hated myself and the sexually intrusive thoughts and actually strived to be better. I wanted a partner in the future, and I wanted to actually be a decent girlfriend.

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So yeah, I don't really care if you were exposed young. That's not an excuse, only an explanation. At a point, you just lack self-control.