   Hi guys, I'm coming hot to the community, and kindly requesting help right away :)  
I've switched recently from the windows mainly bc I was using iPhone anyway and wanted to get more out of the eco system.   
  
The whole system of notifications (like when working on mac - getting notifications on mac, stepping away - getting them back on the phone, same with getting and taking calls) was working great, until like 3-4 days ago when for the first time I was using the mac and got told that I was ghosting my gf for over 30 mins bc I didn't get the notification both on the phone, and the mac. the only way I found out was bc I hovered over the doc which I normally use hidden and saw one unread message mark. Since the phone was all the time right beside me I know it didn't make a noise, nor light up - but when I picked it up I saw in fact the delivered message on the locked screen. The above scenario keeps happening for the last 4 days with all messages. The moment I step away from the pc, the messages on the iPhone are working normally 

  
Here is what I have tried so far:   
\- The only 2 devices on iCloud up to date (mac mini m4 - 26.5.1 and ip 15 pro - 26.4.2) - im from eu if that changes anything  
\- All notifications settings on both devices are turned on and unmuted   
\- Both devices are on the same WiFi and have Bluetooth turned on   
\- iMessage and FaceTime on both devices can receive and reply from the same phone number + mail   
\- Text message forwarding and Calls on other devices on iPhone are turned on   
\- Focus is turned off on both devices and is shared across them 

On most of the "fixes" I have found on the internet it says to "Allow notifications on Mac" but you can see whats happening on attached vid - it lets me switch it on but as soon as I close and open the settings app again its turned off again. I did try restarting both and it didn't work. 

Any fixes maybe ? Thanks 

Notifications not transferring properly, pls help