Acquaintance constantly makes comments about my clothing

My (32f) trans acquaintance (28 mtf) recently started transitioning, we’ve only met once in person and chat online sometimes. Before she even decided to transition she would constantly make comments about my clothes and wanting to wear my clothes. Whenever she checks up on me, she asks if we can hang out and if I can bring clothes for her to wear. Normally I would say this is cute, and at first I was super excited to help her dress up and feel like her best self. But the occurrence that this is happening is quite more frequent now. We don’t chat as much but almost every single time we do it’s about my clothes, how they look good on me, wanting to wear them, etc.. It’s probably a few times a week and I’m noticing we don’t talk much outside of that anymore and every time she talks to me it’s about my clothes.

Anyways, I’m starting to wonder if this is a fetish? I may cross post on a fetish subreddit, but I wanted to post here first because I want to be sensitive to the fact that she may just be excited. Is this normal? If it is a fetish, it’s something I haven’t heard of. It’s starting to affect our dynamic, like a lot. For clarity I have no issues hyping her up, giving her clothes, or anything at all.. I’m just wondering maybe why this would be the ONLY extent of our conversations now or if it’s even that deep.

Posted Jun 11, 2026, 9:29 PM UTC

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