Organising a sex positive party. What to do?

A couple of months ago I posted here about the idea of organizing a sex-positive event and got some really valuable feedback.

Fast forward to today: it’s actually happening.

I pitched the concept to one of the most respected venues in my city, a place known for hosting concerts, art exhibitions, and cultural events, and they were on board.

To be clear, this isn’t intended to be an orgy or anything like that. The idea is to create a high-quality electronic music event with a kinky aesthetic, both in terms of dress code and decor.

The venue will have two separate areas: a dance floor and a playroom. The playroom will be set up with sofas, curtains, soft lighting, and a comfortable atmosphere for people who want to explore their sexuality in a respectful environment. Access will be limited to couples, mainly to avoid random solo guys treating the space poorly, and capacity will be controlled so it never feels overcrowded.

Some of the basic rules are no phones, no photos, a mandatory dress code (no low-effort outfits), respect for others, and a strong focus on consent.

With all that in mind, if you saw an event like this being announced in your city, what would make you feel comfortable enough to attend?