Conflicting messaging from men and women

I’ve been really frustrated lately because I can’t reconcile the positive messaging I get from women with the total lack of attention i get from men. im no model, but objectively, i know looks are not my biggest problem. i clean up pretty nicely since i lost weight, started doing makeup and dressing well. i get compliments pretty often from women, but am essentially invisible to men. Ive never even had a guy express interest in me let alone dated or fooled around. but then again i am also black with no boobs or ass so maybe that is why. I dont believe in “intimidating beauty” but I am started to believe in “girl pretty” and “boy pretty” - the idea that someone’s looks can appeal more to women than to men