She’s perfect but I don’t if I’m physically attracted 34F 32M
So I (32M) talking and flirting with a girl (34F) I met on a dating app. We connected a lot and talked a lot. We met two times already and had deep conversations.
We share many interests and have common life goals and the same vision of a couple.
So on paper it’s perfect. BUT I don’t know if I’m attracted. I got discarded by my ex like a month ago after 5 years together. It was very toxic and I feel a lot better now that I’m not with her. So I don’t know but I’m holding back with this new girl. I feel like she’s starting to get feelings and I don’t want to hurt her.
I don’t know what to do to and if I should keep going a bit more to see where it goes? I don’t think it will hurt but I don’t want to take advantage of her. I’m not interested in having sex and leaving right after, I feel like it’s shitty but I think it may happens soon..
Posted Jun 11, 2026, 10:31 PM UTC